The Love Expert

Dear Someone from a mile away ,or even just next to me but dying inside because of relationships . In all understanding between the dynamics of relationships. Find yourself someone who is going to appreciate your efforts as a man and will see the bliss in it. Woman have a tendency of taming a man and then abusing their tamed nature and treating it like a weakness. This has never worked for any man or woman. The tame game never works ,so what happens when you meet a tamed man,You will force him to be wild and then come back and try to tame him?Many girls try to do this and it never works out ,The same applies for man,. They need to deal with something that they can understand . Its human nature to always be attracted to what is comfortable and easy.,But then again its a trap. If a girl comes to a guy and says she loves him and she wants to start something,Its like a through pass ,more like an easy thing ,most probably even comfortable.The rareness of the event makes it secure to some extent because it gives the hope that the girl is really inlove with you.Thats why 90% of the time ,if not an absolutely 99.9% of the times when a girl initiates it ,then something is bound to happen.Either romantically or just some weird Friends with Benefits kind of situation.. Called Situationships hihi..So the basics are saying ,From the get go ,find yourself someone that is going to appreciate your efforts and see the beauty in the attention that you dedicate to them. We all know the feeling of someone getting you lunch when you are busy with an assignment.Or someone who comes to fetch you with an umbrella from the rain outside on a wet day,Someone who comes with a movie and says "Hey lets watch a movie .." Its basic economics really. We are normally all victims at some point ,We are victims of our hearts and more importantly ,We are victims of bad and horrible timing.We find the beauty in the spontaneous seduction of perfect relationships even at our weakest times.Its easy to entertain something that completely goes against what you believe in,but because it comes at a time when you need it the most ,or during the time when it doesn't have to make sense ,or when you need something to fuel your ego ..And then bang ,there it is . I think its a tool used by the deceiver ,and the deceiver is manipulative and funny enough very patient as well,cause he will let it slide ...until you are at a point of no way out and then he will slam it in your face. Anyways Until next time . Sincerely The Love Expert